i feel that there's no such thing as a perfect combination when it comes to relationships. last sunday, i watched will and grace (as usual). it's a continuation of the episode where leo (grace's husbond) cheated on her. it was unforgivable for her and will. i understand how she feels and i kinda know how it feels.

we all want our relationships to be good but it's really impossible specially if only one of you is trying his/her best to make things happen. it's a commitment. you both have to do your part. you don't go on blaming your partner for your unacceptable behavior just because he/she's not perfect (good looks, extremely smart, rich, famous, funny etc.).

i chanced upon a blog of a very pretty girl (ji) who's very much in love with her boyfriend (who's not so good looking noh) . he cheated. he wont admit it but she knows (we always know. right girls?). she said that it seem to have start with text, phone calls, and him (her boyfriend) sharing his troubles. the girl being there for him to listen and give advice. i have to agree with ji. if you have issues, why don't you share it with your partner? that's what they're there for.

i think some people forget that when you are in a relationship, you are not only there to share the love but more than anything, there should be friendship.

her posts are long and i can tell she's deeply hurt and can't seem to trust anymore. the guy asked for a chance for them to work things out but he seem to be doing the same thing.

that's one thing i really dont understand about men. ano ba, pinatawad na nga kayo tapos gagawin nyo ulit? while its true that not only men cheat but hey im a girl, this is my blog so why should i give you guys a fair chance? write your own blog. damnit.

i just wish that we could all be happy.

and btw, the thing you guys say that what we dont know wont hurt us? sus...you dont know what you're talking about. that might have work during the barbaric times but with technoly (and me being the master of knowing everything) it's easy to get caught. no matter how careful you think you are. my services are for hire, btw. i have not only once helped someone "research" something. no, its im not invading privacy. the things are just there...in front of us. i just know how to connect things. that's all. it's so funny the things you find out in the internet.

i dont know why im being like this. guess im a bit frustrated. it pains me to kow there are people out there who loves honestly but not the right person. painful indeed. painful.