I got to talk to a very disturbed friend. The usual...boy problem.

FRIEND: I was talking to my guy the other night and out of nowhere he asked me "bakit ang mga babae ina-assume na may gusto sa kanila yung lalaki or nililigawan sila pero sa totoo meron lang kailangan sa kanila or nagiging mabait lang naman? tska pano mo masasabi na boyfriend mo na yung lalaki? HE-LO I didn't know what to say!
ME: Why?
FRIEND: It reminded me of our current situation. He never formally asked me to be his girlfriend. We've been doing things that normal couples do so you'd think talaga that we're a couple.
ME: Yun naman pala eh. Bakit ka nagdradrama?
FRIEND: Kasi feeling ko I've put him in a situation/place that he didn't want to be. I love the guy you know but I feel like pinagtyatyagaan lang nya ako kasi andito na ako, ni walang effort masyado on his part and I don't want that.
ME: Eww...that sucks
FRIEND: Sinabi mo pa. I guess it's up to me para linawin yung mga bagay-bagay. If somebody asks me how he is, I'll just tell them that he's OK and will not volunteer any more info or kwento.
ME: Sobra naman. Pero talaga out of nowhere napagusapan nyo to?
FRIEND: Yup. Ewan paranoid na rin siguro ako. Siguro disappointed lang ako sa mga bagay-bagay. Broken promises and everything. At least now I know where I stand. I'm not on the top 10 of his priority list and he would rather be with his friends than with me.
ME: Sobra ka naman! PATHETIC
FRIEND: Gagi TRUE! "do not compete with my friends coz you wont win" Sakit di ba?
ME: Ang masasabi ko, mahalin mo na lang sarili mo. Hindi ka naman ganyan eh. I mean may dumating naman ng ibang guys sa life mo but only with him na nakita kitang ganyan.
FRIEND: Ewan ko ba...well I'm sure magsusurvive ako. Nalilinawagan na ako e.
ME: Goodluck dude!


Eww...very disturbing. I'm not really good in giving advise to my friends but I'm a good listener =)

Last Sarturday our barkada had a small get-together, Our friend Chris was to leave the next day (sunday...bale kahapon). Everyone was so emotional and even our guy friends cried. Sir Robbie moderated this "fondest memory and message" session for Chris. We were asked to say something about him that we'll miss. Lahat kami pare-pareho ng comment. He's a true friend the type of person that you can really count on. I'll surely miss him. I've learned a lot from this guy...about family, being a true friend, loving someone, and being a responsible person. I wish him luck and strength that he may be able to handle challenges that will come his way.