i love meeting new people as there's always an opportunity for me to learn things from them. Spent five days with a new group but in that short period of time, i learned a lot about friendship and relationships. a 30yr old guy married with two kids but he and his wife are living separately. yes they still see each other, he gets still gets to sleep in their house but they have ended their "relationship". weird set-up but he says it's actually good for them. when i asked why, he told me that things became too serious. friendship was no longer there and in a way they've lost their identities. they are now in this stage where they are trying to rediscover themselves and rebuilding the friendship that they lost. i asked him if he wants to get back with his wife and he simply answered "thinking things through." I can tell he still loves her but i guess they're both not yes ready.



that's just on of the people i met and became friends with. he reminded me so much of my officemates from Ulead who taught me a lot on how men thinks, how they view relationships, and when to give up. one thing in particular that they all mentioned was if a guy really is in-love and serious about this girl, for sure he'll end his days of pang-bababae. titigilan na ang pangka-career ng kung sinu-sino. eh pano kung ganun yung partner mo? does it mean that you have to give up on him? some would say yes while others would disagree. i would say yes. if i continuously see evidence of him being unfaithful, more that usually friendly to other girls...i'd have to say goodbye. i dont want to wait for the time when i overly hate him because of that.



so next question is...how do you say goodbye?